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i cannot not stand black roses , guess cause they represent harsh sadness to me. one of my brothers friends wants to put black roses on his grave, and i don't want black roses there , am i being ridiculous.? it should have been his 27 th b day. but he was murdered 3 years ago. i appriciate that his friend helps me to make sure the grave site is well kept, but to me, putting black roses on someones grave when it should have been their b day doesnt seem right. please tell me if i am wrong for being this way. for 3 years his ex has trashed his grave site, so i am already way over protective of his grave site. my brother was murdered by his girlfriends ex husband and the girlfriend admitted to helping but the police won't arrest her. and the friend that wants to put the black roses down was in love with my brother.